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I wanted to make the setup for April soft and dreamy since this new month comes in at a time where everyone is isolating and sheltering in place. You can see how I planned this month and follow along.

You can watch my video set up above, or you can read and see the detail shots below.


For the cover page background, I scribbled in the first few stanzas of TS Eliot’s poem The Wasteland. It is one of my favorite poems, and I’ve used it for April in my past journals too, just because I feel like it is so fitting.

This is the first stanza:

I. THE BURIAL OF THE DEAD APRIL is the cruellest month, breeding Lilacs out of the dead land, mixing Memory and desire, stirring Dull roots with spring rain.

I found this to be particularly apt in school, as April was the month your teachers would begin to pile on the projects and papers in prep for exams. People would ask me how it was going and I would respond, “well, April is the cruelest month…” like the sassy English major I was. I also think given all that is going on in the world that maybe a poem about endings and beginnings is appropriate.

I glued on a triplet of rosebuds that I had already cut out from a magazine. Those I arranged in a row and adding a title that says “Spring into April.” I cut that from another magazine, last year’s April issue of Dallas Modern Luxury. I backed that with a black rectangle that I colored in with my black dry erase marker to make it really pop and glued it in place.

On the other side of the page, I wrote out the numbers of the month and filled it in with the initial for the corresponding day. I find this to be easier than drawing out the calendar, both because this month is lighter on events due to COVID-19 and because I am bad at spacing the boxes in a way that doesn’t fill me with rage. I highlighted the Sundays on the calendar with my pink mildliner, that way I would know when each week started.


On the next page I laid out my mood tracker for the next month. I’ve dealt with mood disorders for most of my life, so a color for each day doesn’t really cut it. This tracker allows me to track my mood fluctuations throughout the day with a specific, fixed color code. I add a short note next to each day and longer, more specific notes on the opposite side of the page along with space I leave on the next three pages.

For this spread, I carefully marked everything out with a ruler and filled some boxes in with my black marker, going over it with my white Gelly roll for a standout look.

I set aside another box on each of the following pages for notes I want to give to my doctors, like any side effects from medications, so that I don’t forget to bring them up in my doctor’s appointments.

Next is my “running list” spread, which I use to keep track of ideas I have and that don’t necessarily have a due date. I have these flights of ideas that can be pretty distracting, so I make note of them here. Sometimes I’ll forget the idea the moment it passes, so putting it here means I can act on it later when I have time. I sort them by priority with letters. I have high, low, and mid priority levels and a star for things that need to be done immediately. I have further letters to delineate whether it is a task just for fun or whether it is something I actually need to do. I’ll list out items in this spread and check them off as I go.

My quote page reads “like wildflowers, you must allow yourself to grow in all the places people never thought you would.”

I wrote most of this in my black Crayola thin tipped marked. This was not the best for me as I rest my hand against the page while I write, and the Crayola created a lot of streaking. Luckily this comes off if you wet your finger a little. It was very annoying but it’s too late to go back.

I wrote the main nouns in my purple mildliner, which I then outlined in black fineliner. I paired the quote with some dark florals that I cut into long strips and staggered out with some dot patterns.

My weekly spread is pretty simple. I measured out eight boxes that were 10 dots high by about 13 dots wide. My journal is the Leucchtterm so it is 27 dots wide, thus one of the sides will be one dot wider than the other. I outlined six of the boxes, leaving alternating blank ones in the middle for a clipping and a doodle. I used these six boxes for the days of the week. Now I’m realizing I should have done 7 boxes but oh well. The other side has a long box for tasks and another one for notes. Both sides have floral collage details and are titled and the highlighted in pink.

I really hope you liked this dreamy, flowery layout for April, I know I did. Make sure you're staying safe, healthy, and at home during these strange, uncertain times. Thanks for joining me!

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Your basic black T-Shirt doesn't have to be boring! I used a four pack of men's undershirts to flip and repurpose into a bunch of different looks that are cute and fun. Plus, all of these methods are newbie friendly; you don't have to be good at sewing or at style to do any of them. They're all easy, adorable, and sustainable, too!

Watch my video below for the quick low down and give this blog post a read for those extra details.

This is how I made a bunch of different looks with just the four men’s T-shirts in this box.


Some of them are a success, some of them… are not. You can wear them untucked and loose and baggy, but since I am prissy, I will not be doing that. Here are the four ways I transformed these shirts and the looks I made with them.

 

Method 1: The Knot

This first method takes the basic shirt as is. No alterations required. This gives you one basic shirt as a backup and a style twist for when you want it to look better.

Gather up the fabric in front and tie it so that you define your natural waist. Since this is a men’s undershirt, it might fit a bit looser on you. I have a very large bust and a narrower waist, so tying it up shows off my figure while still looking casual.

I personally like this look with leggings, so I feel like I have a shape. Perfect for an athleisure look that you can wear while sauntering around your virtually abandoned apartment complex or going to the grocery store and panic checking off your grocery list in the empty toilet paper aisle because apparently we live in hell.

Another look I love is to wear it over a loose T-Shirt dress. Double T-shirt. It looks super cute and it involves almost no effort!


I am aggressively hourglass shaped, so sometimes T-shirt dresses make me feel chunky and square. They tend to float over my curves in a way that makes me look like I don’t have any. I’ll solve this by layering it under an undershirt and knotting the tee so I can show off that sexy, sexy hourglass. Not only is this look comfy, but it means that you don’t have to worry about wearing an actual underwire bra, and isn’t that the dream?

 

Method 2: The Chop

Our next look is “The Chop,” where we will create a crop. Chop off the bottom of the shirt and voila, an easy crop top look. You could very easily just chop off the bottom of the shirt and cut off the sleeves a little, but I wanted to make this look more polished and purposeful. I gave it a finished hem and sewed up the cuff.

You’ll start by putting on the shirt, marking off where you’d like the hem to end with a safety pin. Once you know where you’d like the crop to hit, fold the shirt up to that line, leaving about an inch of seam allowance.

Painstakingly hand sew the entire hem because you are too dumb to figure out your sewing machine.

Chop off the extra fabric.

Then realize that the sewing machine isn’t that hard and redo the hem with that instead for security. Pretend you didn’t waste an hour hand stitching it.

You may also want the sleeves to be a little shorter with a cute little cuff. It’s annoying to keep refolding the cuff, so what you’re going to do is fold it over twice, pin that in place, and then hand stitch it in place.

You’ll get a sleek, effortless look if it seems like the cuff just happens to stay perfectly folded all the time. Don’t machine sew this because of your aforementioned alarming dumbassery. I chose four points to stitch where it would be least noticeable, and now my sleeves are forever cuffed.

The cropped length and the cuffed sleeves also makes this perfect for layering under strappy dresses.


 

Method 3: The Hoping for the Best and It Only Sort Of Turns Out All Right.”

My original idea was to make a V-neck that is also a crewneck, a la those choker tees that were so popular in 2016. But I did not do a good job. I had to keep improvising and starting over. Each time I basically hated what I had made and hoped a little tweaking would change the result. In the end, I only barely liked it, but it did make for some cute looks. Just had to deal with the mistakes.

Put the shirt on, mark where you want the neckline to end with red sewing chalk.

Attempt to use a plate to trace the curve, realize that is dumb and draw a new line instead.


Anyway, once you cut the raw hem you’ll realize it hits too low and makes you look like your boobs are going to fly free so you are going to sew a seam up the center.

This won’t help at all. I didn’t like the raw edges, either. I decided to try to add some binding to the edges of the neckline for a nicer look.


Only the thing is that, for me, now the neckline wouldn’t fit right. In the process, I stabbed myself in the fingers several times and got a lot of fabric caught in my machine where it shouldn’t have been. I made a whole taped edge by using the original hem, folding it over, and sewing it in place at all of the edges. I didn’t know how to join them at the three angled points. I tried to fold them up and sew them together to make it look like a clean, purposeful edge. This, unfortunately, tightened up the neckline in the wrong spots. When I put it on, the choke part wouldn’t lay flat against my neck like a choker, which ruined the whole purpose of this flip. So, I decided to scrap it all and start over.

If you want to avoid my mistake. just be really careful when you are cutting out the triangle. Make sure you don’t cut too far into the edges of the ribbed collar, that way it will look more purposeful.

Now, I could have lied and just started as if I had always intended the next steps to happen, if I wanted to. But I think the series of failures is funny, and I wanted to be honest. I’m not that great at DIYing all the time. I get frustrated seeing other people seem to do it perfectly every time.

Although, if you think about it, they probably don’t do it perfectly every time. They probably just cut out the mistakes and don’t show them. This is both a cautionary tale and an honest one. I’m not always good at what I try to do, and that is my truth. It still turned out fine, though.

This time you’ll cut off the entire top edge, removing the sleeves and the collar. Cut straight across so it looks like a tube top.

To make sure the tube top stays in place, you’ll want some elastic. If it is social distancing time and you can’t leave the house, you can steal it from another item of clothing. I used my scissors and seam ripper to tear the elastic waistband out of a pair of shorts I had from high school.

Here is the secret to cutting out elastic: do not cut through the elastic first. You should first cut into the waistband, without cutting through the elastic, cut the fabric all the way around so you can see whether the elastic was sewn into the garment or just hanging out in the tube. Mine was sewn down at the top and bottom, so I had to carefully rip out the stitches along either edge. If you tear through the elastic partially, you’ll make it weaker, so don’t go too fast when you rip.


This is where the elastic was originally sewn together. Cut here.

Once you’ve torn out the stitches, you’ll probably be left with a loop of elastic and you’ll be able to see where it was originally sewn together. This is where you should cut the elastic apart. The elastic tends to be a little weaker here just because of wear and tear, so it’s best to have the only cut be at this single point.


You can certainly cut it at any point, you just may have to reinforce the joining spot before you weave it into your new top. Usually, the best place to start is by ripping out the stitches at the side seams of the waistband. Cut the elastic so that you are now left with a long strip.


Hem the top edge of the tube on your sewing machine or by hand, but make sure not to completely finish it off. You want to leave a gap for when you eventually weave your elastic through.


When you fold the top over to make the top hem, pin it with enough room to fit your elastic through, and then some. My elastic was about 1.5” wide, so I pinned my hem to be about 2” wide as I am prone to errors. This will create a casing along the top that is wide enough to fit the elastic.


You’ll feed the elastic through the top casing you just made. You should have a slit left where you did not complete the hem on either side so that you can run the elastic through. Attach both ends of the elastic to their own safety pin. Steadily feed one end through the top by pulling it by the safety pin. Make sure to keep the back end of the elastic from ever going through the fabric tube. Once you have fed the entire elastic through so that it is coming out the other side, you will sew it together at the end.


Now it is a tube top that will stay up.


I was worried about what to do about wearing a bra under this, so I added some straps by braiding together leftover strips of black fabric.

I sewed them into place with the sewing machine and hoped I chose the right spot.



In the end, I didn ‘t super love how it looked on my body, but I found that it looked even cuter when layered over a basic white tee. That not only allowed me to wear a normal bra, but it also gave those cute ‘90s vibes.

 

Method Four: The Pom-Pom

The truth of this method is that I ripped off the trim from another garment and added it to my sleeve cuffs for a cute detail. I tore the pom-pom trim off the pair of short from my last method.

Carefully rip the extra trim off with your seam ripper. This should leave you with a few long strips of trim, depending on the garment you steal your trim from.

I used a tape measure to see the circumference of my shirt’s arm opening so that I would know how much trim to use on each sleeve. I folded the sleeve to lay flat and measured the length. When folded, my sleeve was 7” long, so I knew I would need about 14” of trim to go around the circumference of each sleeve.

Pin the trim in place and hand stitch it in place. This is just the safest way considering all the detail. You don’t want to accidentally sew down a pom-pom. All done!

 

In the end, I had four different shirts: the original tee, a cropped version, a tank top, and another with pom-pom trim. I loved all of these looks, and I loved that while each look was essentially a twist on a black tee outfit, each one had been customized by me. I know that the crop is the perfect length because I did it myself. I didn’t have to spend extra money on trim because I took it from something I already owned, and I knew that the shirt as is was already a great fit. I hate when you buy black items, but they either aren’t the same color black or some of them are less opaque than others. Using a bunch of crews from the same pack really solves this problem for me, too.

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Just because you are social distancing doesn’t mean you can’t be cute!

Isolation is one of the few ways we can prevent the continued spread of the Coronavirus (COVID-19) and hopefully ensure that this waking nightmare ends soon. Now that Dallas County Judge Clay Jenkins has issued a “shelter-in-place” order, we all have no choice to stay in our houses! It’s more than just a fun way to spend your weekend, y’all. If we all partake in social distancing, it could minimize catastrophic outcomes.

Now, I’m sure you’re all thinking what I’m thinking. How am I going to dress to look and feel my best when I can’t leave my house for non-emergency reasons and there’s really no point in doing anything other than staying in my bed? Well, no fear! I’m here to answer that question for both of us. From my real experience, here is your social distancing wardrobe.

 

Day 1

Today you are focused on making the most of this social distancing thing! You are going to be productive! You are going to the grocery store (because outdoor walks and essential shopping, like Kroger, are still allowed as long as you stay six feet away from others), and you are not going to physically fight a stranger over the last roll of toilet paper. Instead, you will sit in the shelves of the empty toilet paper aisles and check off your to do list. It is the only place in the store where you will not be in the way, precisely because there is nothing left to buy in this aisle.


For this look, you want to think athleisure with a casual spin. I wore a pair of cool leggings, a loose, tied up T-shirt under a denim jacket, and canvas sneakers. It’s a comfortable look without being sloppy, perfect for crying a little in the grocery store as you watch a mother with children try to figure out a meal from what’s left of the picked over pasta selection.

 

Day 3

Just because you have all your supplies in order, and you have no excuse to be social until the order is lifted doesn’t mean you have to stop turning out the cute athleisure looks. You have a responsibility to yourself to make yourself feel better! And if putting on a full face of makeup to wear leggings in your house makes you feel better, then you should do it!


For this look, you want to think all black, like a plague doctor, except with a modern twist and without the long bird mask. I wore a pair of Calvin Klein leggings (designer labels should still get a time to shine even during a pandemic), and a black cropped tee. I wore the same sneakers from the day before to take a long, isolated walk up and down the stairs of my apartment so I wouldn’t go crazy. If you’re wondering if my hair is washed, I’ll let you know that it isn’t; I’ll stretch the limits on hair washing at least when no one will see me but my cat and maybe my loud neighbor when I leave for my stairway walks.

 

Day 5

This is the day where you start to realize that you are running out of activities to do during this period. There’s only so much writing and sewing and journaling and crafting and walking up and down and up and down and up and down the stairs that you can do. You might not want to admit this to yourself, but it is possible you are starting to get bored.



Think glorified pajamas for this look. I wore a cut off sorority tee (it’s not four years, it’s for life!), plus a pair of shorts that I will admit, I have slept in on occasion. Wearing a short little bathrobe made me feel cozy without feeling like I was going to bed, and of course, fashionista that I am, I matched my socks to my slippers. I’m not an animal.

 

Day 8

Perhaps on this day you want to bring back some whimsy. Perhaps you have started to go a little nuts, and you want your look to reflect that. Perhaps you want to dress in a monochromatic, super pink look themed around a bathrobe to match your apartment which is also all pink because you are a crazy person who loves aggressive expressions of femininity. Perhaps this whole pandemic is making your too depressed to do laundry so all that is left to wear is a bathrobe and you are using whimsy as an excuse to continue procrastinating.



For this look, you will need to start with the most ridiculous bathrobe you own. Does it make you feel a little silly? Maybe. But does it also make you sort of feel like a princess and enjoy not taking yourself too seriously when the world is spiraling into chaos? Yes. My bathrobe is made from pink terry cloth and it’s ruffled all along the lapel and the cuffs, which just makes me feel extra fun. It’s too long for me, so it flares like a cape when I walk, which is rarely, because where would I go during this time and even if I could why would I leave the house in a bathrobe?


What you wear under the bathrobe doesn’t matter, because you are going to bundle yourself up like it’s a self-swaddling contest. Will you just go commando under this? That’s up to you. I paired this look with mismatched pink socks that don't match each other, but that do match the whole vibe. And voila! You’re on your way to looking like a low budget Disney princess!

 

Day 10

You are beginning to get discouraged. Is there any point in taking care of yourself when there is seemingly no end to this viral plague? Are the same few people who refuse to stay home going to repeatedly ruin it for everything by compounding the spread of the virus? Are you ever going to wash your hair again?



Don’t bother wearing a bra for this look. Who cares? Nobody will see you and you are so uncomfortable from being in your house with no end that you will do anything to maintain a semblance of comfort. Just wear a bathrobe. Nobody gives a damn, certainly not me.


I wore matching socks from embroidered with “OMG” (not DMG), to represent “oh my god, I can’t believe this is happening,” “omg I can’t stop this recurring panic that all of my relatives are going to be infected,” “oh my god how am I going to pay my bills when my job makes it impossible to work from home,” “oh my god I feel so terrible for all the people missing major milestones like the seniors who might not get to walk the stage at graduation or the weddings that have been planned to perfection and will now have to be canceled or the pregnant mothers who are having to be isolated from their emotional/social support systems for the good of their baby,” “omg I think the crashing of the economy is inevitable” “oh my god is society as we know it going to shut down” and all of that fun stuff.

 

Day 12

Panic has metastasized into a deep depression. Your only friend is your cat and you big bag of potato chips that you have been hoarding. Your cat is kind of disgusted with you and the chips. She stays home all day long, so she doesn’t understand why you are complaining. You are paralyzed with panic, immobilized with indecision, unsure of what we as a society can do. It’s possible you are starting to give up.

Gray sweatpants, gray T-shirt, grayish socks. Who cares? You pull your hair into pigtails because it’s so dirty that you don’t give a damn anymore. You sit on the floor at all times. You’re not deserving of a grown up chair. You skin is beyond dry from obsessive hand washing as if that and that alone will protect you. You cling to your sour cream and onion chips and pray to the Hand Sanitizer Gods that this will be over soon.

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